Dear Shows B Reader i need your honest advice

Dear SB readers,

I have been hearing about blessings when one found a wife and i need to understand cos i am confused here. Am a bachelors  still in the business of proposing and hoping to find the best one day, but i really need honest clarification and advise on this matter. 

I often hear from married couples that marriage brings some blessings wish singles don't have. My question here are, wouldn't these closed doors of blessing not be as a result of planning by the bachelor fellow or as a result of not fulfilling a requirement for this blessing (being married).

Would like to be cleared on this to enable me set my life priorities.

please need your advice don't turn it to joke.....

Tito Vilanova died at age 45

The ex-Barcelona coach who was hospitalised following a drastic downturn in his health which required emergency surgery, but was tragically unable to survive his battle with cancer.

The ex-central midfielder was admitted to hospital on Thursday following a downturn in his health which required an operation on his stomach on Thursday, with club president Josep Maria Bartomeu confirming the trainer was "fighting" for his life.

Vilanova, whose post-playing career has been tragically plagued by cancer, was unable to battle any longer and passed away on Friday afternoon.

Vilanova's public health problems began during his final season as Pep Guardiola's assistant when he was diagnosed with cancer of the parotid gland.

He took over from his long-time friend for the 2012-13 season but suffered a relapse just six months into his tenure as head coach.

He underwent surgery in December 2012, with Jordi Roura taking his place on the bench while he recovered in New York, before returning in March 2013 to see out the rest of the reason and guide Barca to La Liga victory.

However, his continued health problems saw his step down as coach of the Catalans last summer, with Gerardo Martino taking the reins in his place.

Vilanova has largely - and understandably - been out of the spotlight since he left his position at Camp Nou but rumours of his ill health have sadly been revealed to be true. He is survived by a wife and two children.

Following confirmation of his death, Barcelona president Bartomeu said in a statement: "Tito will be reference as a man and in terms of football for Barcelona forever. We thank him for everything he taught us. Rest in peace."

It summed up Vilanova and the 45-year-old's brave fight which ultimately ended in defeat - a painful loss that makes football seem so trivial right now. Tito, a man who lived and breathed Barca, also united football fans in Spain and across the world with his valiant fight. He'll be sorely missed.

Culled from goal.com

Tiwa in Bikini in Dubai

Mrs.  Tunji Balogun to be, has really shown the reason for all the shedding of weight all these while preparing both physically and all  for the wedding ...


 see her body as she shows her body in black bikini and two of her friends.

What do you think about her look?

Tiwa Savage & Tee Billz Dubai for their wedding

Tiwa salvage arrived at Dubai this Morning in preparation for their wedding to Tee Billz tomorrow April 26^th. She is lodging at the Armani Hotel which is also the venue for the wedding reception.

Her wedding planner: Elohor Aisen who also arrived with two other.

According to source Banky W host the pre-wedding party for the couple today at the Sesations crown Plaza. And will Best Tee Billz.

Stephen Keshi is set to receive another award

Super Eagles coach, Stephen Keshi is set to receive another award following his achievement with the Nigeria national team in recent years.

The umbrella body of sports journalists of Edo State extraction, Edo Sports Media Practitioners Forum, has unveiled an ambitious programme for its maiden award night that is scheduled for the later part of the year.

The body which convened in Lagos on Wednesday decided that Governor Adams Oshimhole of Edo State, Super Eagles Head Coach, Stephen Keshi, former national team handler, Shuaibu Amodu, Okpekpe race initiator, Mike Itemuagbor and Secretary to the Edo State Government Julius Ihonvbere will be honoured for their contributions to sports growth in the state in particular and Nigeria in general.

In a release, the body said Oshiomhole is being specially recognized for launching the revival of Bendel Insurance as well as the reinvention of Edo State Sports Festival. Keshi is getting a special honour as a honorary citizen of Edo State and his achievement with the Super Eagles.

On his part, Amodu is being recognized for his outstanding achievements as national team coach and the only Nigerian coach to have qualified the country twice for the World Cup.

10 Persons Escape Death In Oworoshoki,Lagos Storey Building Collapse

10 Persons escape death after a two-story building under construction collapsed at Sand breach lanes off Alonge street, Oworoshoki, Kosofe Local Govt. on Thursday morning.

It was said the some worker are busy working on the construction when the building collapsed on them at about 11.am in the morning. At least about 10 workers are trapped under the rubbles.

According to our report and eye witness Four Teenagers working on the building were amongst the trapped persons, named Mose,Ahungbe and Jimoh. The four Teenagers on the hospital beds were said to be assisting on the building before the incident.

No causality was recorded in the building collapse but varying degree of injuries were recorded.

According to a resident who identified himself as Mr. Adetayo Olawale, the building collapsed at about 11:00 pm while construction works were still ongoing which led to chaos, as everyone scampered for safety.” They are currently receiving treatment at Gbagada General hospital.

Boko Haram pays 500,000 Nigerian naira ($3,085, £1,835) to recruit Gang members

Boko Haram has shown that it can hit the Nigerian state in different ways: Bombs, village raids, school attacks and child abductions.

For now, Nigeria's neighbours are only dealing with the consequences of this violence.

But the prospect of the same violence spilling over is becoming more of a question of "not if but when".

"If they tell you to set off a bomb and it succeeds, if it kills a lot of people, they will pay you a lot of money," one of the gang members said.

"We are ready for that."

Boko Haram recruits members, not just from Nigeria, Cameroon and Chad, it also gets recruits from Niger Republic who it pays 500,000 Nigerian naira ($3,085, £1,835) to those of us who followed them over there," one of the young men says.

"The rest of us, here, we give them information.

"When they come, we inform them about what's going on, what the security forces are up to."

However, their pay is increased should their bombs kill more people in Nigeria, the BBC has said.

The teens, when they are enlisted, are given Tramol [an opiate drug], marijuana and alcohol. They break into houses for cash; sometimes beat people for money, and steal their animals for food. They gather again for their opium and drinks.

Though the recruits, barely in their teens, do not like the sect and its activities, they said they took to violence as being students they have no jobs and are poor.

Taking us back to their hangout, they explained their association with the Nigerian militants.

Culled from BBC